{"id":4057,"date":"2021-05-02T20:56:51","date_gmt":"2021-05-03T00:56:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/laydob.com\/?p=4057"},"modified":"2023-11-12T12:49:25","modified_gmt":"2023-11-12T17:49:25","slug":"what_the_heck_is_bishop_mike_thinking","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/laydob.com\/?p=4057","title":{"rendered":"What the hell is Bishop Mike thinking? Pandering to diocese&#8217;s version of &#8220;Blue Wall of Silence&#8221; won&#8217;t &#8220;renew&#8221; anything"},"content":{"rendered":"<h6 style=\"text-align: center;\"><i><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">WARNING<\/span><br \/>\nGraphic and disturbing. Trigger alert. Discretion is advised.<\/i><\/h6>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\">Like the police who participate in the \u201cblue wall of silence,\u201d our new \u201cvicar for renewal\u201d embodies the chilling, self-protective clerical instinct for which he has been duly rewarded with this visible leadership role Bishop Mike bestowed upon him.<\/h2>\n<p><strong><em>UPDATE<\/em><\/strong>: <em>One of the former seminarian\/whistleblowers reported to me that none of the seminarians who contributed to the report referenced in this post remained with the diocese. &#8220;All were either forced out or chose to leave on their own.&#8221; He reports that there were at least four seminarians who reported on the incident. He acknowledged that Fathers Zielenieski and Webster&#8217;s shaming of the seminarians in the TV interview by not believing them (see video) added to their misery.<\/em><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>A couple years ago, we got a behind-the-scenes look\u00a0at the Diocese of Buffalo&#8217;s version of\u00a0<span class=\"s2\">law enforcement&#8217;s <\/span><span class=\"s2\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2021\/04\/16\/opinion\/police-brutality-chauvin-minnesota-chicago-virginia-blue-wall.html?campaign_id=9&amp;emc=edit_nn_20210421&amp;instance_id=29493&amp;nl=the-morning&amp;regi_id=68022682&amp;segment_id=56000&amp;te=1&amp;user_id=698a69091fd20aa3d5e0ed46f1da3e6e\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">&#8220;blue wall of silence.&#8221;<\/a><\/span><span class=\"s2\"> We all know what it is by now: the shameful extent too many Catholic priests are willing to plunge to protect colleagues, regardless of their misbehavior. If we pray for the conversion of officers who went out of their way to protect rogue police, we similarly pray for the conversion of our priests who shamefully went out of their way to protect their rogue brother priests. Such &#8220;protectors&#8221; are a concern. The problem is, Bishop Michael Fisher apparently does not share our views.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span class=\"s2\">We can say this because Bishop Mike, as he prefers to be addressed, recently gave the responsibility of\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"s2\"><a href=\"https:\/\/wnycatholic.org\/2021\/03\/22\/father-bryan-zielenieski-appointed-new-vicar-for-renewal-and-development\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">vicar for &#8220;Renewal and Development<\/a><\/span><span class=\"s2\">&#8221; to a diocesan priest who back in 2019 publicly stepped up to protect fellow priests caught in an egregious violation of their <\/span><span class=\"s2\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.buffalodiocese.org\/code-of-pastoral-conduct-for-clergy\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Code of Conduct<\/a><\/span><span class=\"s2\">\u00a0resulting in their eventual\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"s2\"><a href=\"https:\/\/news.wbfo.org\/post\/three-local-catholic-priests-placed-temporary-leave-absence\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">temporary leave of absence<\/a><\/span><span class=\"s2\">.\u00a0Our new vicar for &#8220;Renewal and Development,&#8221; Father\u00a0Bryan Zielenieski, didn&#8217;t stop there. He also publicly refused to give any credence or consolation to the whistleblowers\/victims who dared to expose the offending priests.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Dumfounding that THIS is the priest Bishop Mike recently chose to lead &#8220;renewal&#8221; efforts in our diocese. This Saturday, you could ask the bishop what the hell he was thinking\u00a0during\u00a0the\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.icontact-archive.com\/archive?c=568470&amp;f=18577&amp;s=24569&amp;m=762839&amp;t=8a64bc45e75e690cfa1a6f5215bfa10a2fe12be973f3eff2b165c1d45e3a49ca\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">virtual conversation<\/a>\u00a0online with Bishop Michael Fisher and Father Bryan Zielenieski [May 8 at 10:00am], but such a question likely won&#8217;t make it past the screening process with <a href=\"https:\/\/laydob.com\/2020\/08\/31\/part-4-loss-of-objectivity\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">bishop-approved lay &#8220;leaders&#8221;<\/a>\u00a0in Buffalo running the event. So I&#8217;ll ask it here.<\/p>\n<p><strong>A little background about Father Bryan&#8217;s participation in the diocese&#8217;s\u00a0&#8220;black wall of silence&#8221; that protects rogue priests<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The April 2019\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.wkbw.com\/news\/i-team\/seminarians-what-happened-was-disgusting-absolutely-repulsive\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">local television news report<\/a> of alleged conversations among diocesan priests and unsuspecting seminarians required not only a disclaimer about graphic sexual content but careful editing to pass <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fcc.gov\/consumers\/guides\/obscene-indecent-and-profane-broadcasts\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">FCC guidelines<\/a> for public broadcast of obscene, indecent and profane content. It was that bad.<\/p>\n<div class=\"jetpack-video-wrapper\"><span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"825\" height=\"465\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/NMDHlGNA8jU?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=en-US&#038;autohide=2&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span><\/div>\n<h6>(April 30, 2019)\u00a0WKBW-TV Buffalo exclusively obtained a written account that Diocese of Buffalo seminarians gave to their superiors at the seminary. Many of the graphic details were too sexually explicit to air on television.<\/h6>\n<hr \/>\n<p>If our hearts had been stabbed after enduring months of reports of diocesan clergy sexual abuse, this news report of the alleged vulgarity from rank-and-file priests in our parishes ripped the veil off whatever dignity they had left. It was another insider&#8217;s whistleblowing report, this time from a group of seminarians who attended a gathering with a few priests at Saints Peter and Paul Roman Catholic Church in Hamburg. Whistleblowing is a big &#8220;No-No&#8221; in the world of Catholic clergy, especially if those seminarians ever hoped to get ordained, according to one former diocesan official I spoke with. Their sickening report revealed no little heroism because generally you don&#8217;t make false allegations about something that could put your vocation in jeopardy.<\/p>\n<p>Happily for the offending priests, their brother priest, Father Bryan, publicly stepped forward to provide cover by dismissing the seminarians&#8217; concerns (a form of victim shaming) and explaining away shocking details of their report. One seminary employee described the seminarians&#8217; allegations as &#8220;repulsive and absolutely disgusting.&#8221; You decide after reading this excerpt of the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.documentcloud.org\/documents\/5982971-Seminary-Document-Diocese-of-Buffalo.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">seminarians&#8217; report<\/a>:<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"4086\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/laydob.com\/?attachment_id=4086\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/laydob.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/hi-res-quote.jpg?fit=873%2C292&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"873,292\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"hi res quote\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/laydob.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/hi-res-quote.jpg?fit=825%2C276&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-4086\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/laydob.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/hi-res-quote.jpg?resize=825%2C276&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"825\" height=\"276\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/laydob.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/hi-res-quote.jpg?w=873&amp;ssl=1 873w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/laydob.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/hi-res-quote.jpg?resize=300%2C100&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/laydob.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/hi-res-quote.jpg?resize=768%2C257&amp;ssl=1 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 825px) 100vw, 825px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Bishop Mike&#8217;s new vicar for &#8220;Renewal and Development,&#8221; casually brushed off such pornographic talk with statements like: &#8220;<span class=\"s2\">Sometimes there is the nitty gritty&#8221; in ministry.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s2\">The alleged conversations\u00a0spiraled into one thread of vulgarity after another that included a priest&#8217;s description of hearing one of the seminarian&#8217;s parents having sex during a retreat; and light-hearted banter among the priests about vulgar sexual episodes of certain seminary instructors\/administrators, especially with students. Keep in mind, the seminarians were the guests at this pizza party with their superiors. <\/span><span class=\"s2\"><strong>You see the power dynamic.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Father Bryan, who attended the gathering, claims that he did not hear any of these alleged conversations, but nevertheless went out of his way to deflect criticism of the accused priests in an interview with WKBW-TV&#8217;s chief investigative reporter, Charlie Specht. \u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/xcH9EcjYYNI?t=13\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">You can watch the entire interview at this\u00a0<\/a><span style=\"color: #0000ee;\"><span style=\"caret-color: #0000ee;\"><u>link.<\/u><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"jetpack-video-wrapper\"><span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"825\" height=\"465\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/xcH9EcjYYNI?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=en-US&#038;autohide=2&#038;start=15&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span><\/div>\n<h6>This\u00a0full WKBW interview (it\u2019s still on YouTube) is a chilling example of Reverends Bryan <span class=\"s2\">Zielenieski<\/span> and Cole Webster engaging in the \u201cblack wall of silence\u201d&#8211;protecting fellow priests, no matter the allegations. The reporter gave them several opportunities to at least denounce their fellow priests&#8217; alleged vulgarity which they refused, instead choosing to lecture viewers that we have to understand the &#8220;context&#8221; of even sacrilegious obscenities with subordinates in the workplace.<\/h6>\n<hr \/>\n<p><strong>Note to Father Bryan, our new vicar for &#8220;Renewal and Development&#8221;<\/strong>: Sexual harassment\/humiliation\/coercion of seminarians by priests\/instructors is gravely immoral. It is also frowned upon by <a href=\"https:\/\/ag.ny.gov\/sites\/default\/files\/sexual_harrassment_brochure.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">the New York State Attorney General<\/a>. (Please read her statement in the linked footnote)<span id='easy-footnote-1-4057' class='easy-footnote-margin-adjust'><\/span><span class='easy-footnote'><a href='https:\/\/laydob.com\/?p=4057#easy-footnote-bottom-1-4057' title='&amp;#8220;Unwelcome comments or advances; promises of advancement in exchange for sexual favors; offensive &amp;#8216;jokes&amp;#8217; \u2014 sexual harassment can take many forms. It affects not just the victim, but co- workers, families, and the workplace at large. We all have a stake in preventing it and stopping it when it happens. Victims of sexual harassment are often too afraid or embarrassed to come forward. It is important that all workers know that there is help available for those who believe they are being illegally targeted. I am committed to equality in the workplace and to the enforcement of federal, state, and local laws that give employees the right to be free from sexual harassment. If you have questions about harassment and discrimination in the workplace, please contact my office\u2019s Civil Rights Bureau. All New Yorkers have the right to a workplace free from sexual harassment and discrimination. Let us know if you need help.&amp;#8221; &amp;#8211;Letitia James, NYS Atty. General\u00a0'><sup>1<\/sup><\/a><\/span> Not only does Father Bryan appear to not understand that fact (or the fact that such topics are\u00a0<em>not<\/em> something to joke about with seminarians), he also doesn&#8217;t seem to understand that dismissing legitimate claims of whistleblowers\/victims (as he does in the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wkbw.com\/news\/i-team\/seminarians-what-happened-was-disgusting-absolutely-repulsive\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">full WKBW interview<\/a>) is not going to score points with efforts to renew hope and trust among laity in this diocese.<\/p>\n<h1>Note to Bishop Mike: If this is how your vicar for &#8220;Renewal and Development&#8221; reacts to reports from victims in the field, we can predict how he will respond in the future to similar reports of depraved behavior exhibited by your priests.<\/h1>\n<p>Yes, the whistleblowers&#8217; report needed thorough investigation, but for Father Bryan to uncritically dismiss the victims&#8217; claims of sexual harassment and vulgarity on full display at the pizza party shows an abysmal lack of understanding of the very real depths of depravity that got the Diocese of Buffalo into the present crisis of faith complete with loss of souls.<\/p>\n<p>Another excerpt from the report:<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"4094\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/laydob.com\/?attachment_id=4094\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/laydob.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/report-excerpt.jpg?fit=891%2C124&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"891,124\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"report excerpt\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/laydob.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/report-excerpt.jpg?fit=825%2C115&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-4094\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/laydob.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/report-excerpt.jpg?resize=825%2C115&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"825\" height=\"115\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/laydob.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/report-excerpt.jpg?w=891&amp;ssl=1 891w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/laydob.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/report-excerpt.jpg?resize=300%2C42&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/laydob.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/report-excerpt.jpg?resize=768%2C107&amp;ssl=1 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 825px) 100vw, 825px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>And then there&#8217;s this revolting excerpt:<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"4099\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/laydob.com\/?attachment_id=4099\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/laydob.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/filth.jpg?fit=891%2C106&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"891,106\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"filth\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/laydob.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/filth.jpg?fit=825%2C98&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-4099\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/laydob.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/filth.jpg?resize=825%2C98&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"825\" height=\"98\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/laydob.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/filth.jpg?w=891&amp;ssl=1 891w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/laydob.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/filth.jpg?resize=300%2C36&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/laydob.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/filth.jpg?resize=768%2C91&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/laydob.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/filth.jpg?resize=880%2C106&amp;ssl=1 880w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 825px) 100vw, 825px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Who can reconcile the vile, sacrilegious profanity that allegedly spewed from the named priests&#8217; mouths with these eye-popping brush-offs by Father Bryan:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s2\">\u00a0 &#8220;When you are gathered together in a relaxed atmosphere, and when you start to get into the nitty gritty of ministry and you start to really try to be real, you do let your guard down a little bit. I&#8217;m not saying everything is a holy dialogue.&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s2\">&#8220;You have to look at the totality of the conversations [context]&#8230;&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;&#8230;that&#8217;s part of what seminary is. Being exposed to priests and the realness of what ministry is.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s2\">&#8220;Sometimes there is the nitty gritty; sometimes there is the crude&#8230;&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Everybody has their story to tell, and that&#8217;s what we were doing, sharing stories.&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s2\"><strong>A living, breathing, smirking product of the formation process in the Diocese of Buffalo<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s2\">Stomach-turning anecdotes shared by the seminarians (one reported he felt he needed to take a shower after the event) Father Bryan casually dismissed as part of the &#8220;formation&#8221; process. This gross sentiment was echoed by another diocesan pastor who attended the gathering, Rev. Cole Webster, who also claims in the WKBW interview that he didn&#8217;t hear the alleged conversations.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s2\">In that interview, both priests actually characterized alleged vulgar topics of conversation as something that\u2019s \u201cpart of the process\u201d to endure because, after all, \u201cpriesthood is worth it,\u201d Father Bryan says in a ghastly minimization of the alleged details of subject matter too vile to be mentioned in a public broadcast. &#8220;We were just trying to be authentic and share ourselves,&#8221; said Father Cole adding to the deflection while he flat-out questioned the veracity of the whistleblowers.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s2\">The <\/span><span class=\"s2\"><a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/xcH9EcjYYNI\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">full WKBW interview<\/a><\/span><span class=\"s2\"> (it&#8217;s still on YouTube) is a chilling example of two priests participating in the &#8220;black wall of silence,&#8221; diminishing the allegations against fellow priests by lecturing viewers that it is common for priests to discuss people\u2019s lives and their \u201cmessy situations.&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s2\"><strong>Note to Father Bryan:<\/strong><\/span><span class=\"s2\"> The<\/span>\u00a0priests were the ones allegedly displaying <em>their<\/em> messy lives, immorality and crude mindsets which is precisely why the diocese punished them with a temporary leave of absence.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Pinch yourselves, laity, because this story gets worse.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The heart of our concern does not focus on Father Bryan who needs our prayers for conversion instead of our condemnation. He is merely a living, breathing, smirking product of the formation process in the Diocese of Buffalo. Our concern is with our new bishop who,\u00a0one would think, would be eager to avoid such examples of poor formation, not reward them with a title of vicar of an initiative designated to help foment hope and &#8220;renewal&#8221; among we laity.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\">Does our bishop not see in the WKBW interview that Father Bryan appears more upset with the \u201cprocess\u201d of how the diocese unjustly, in his view, handled the seminarians&#8217; report than he is with the gruesome allegations themselves which clearly upset the victims for whom he displays\u00a0<em>zero sympathy<\/em>? The interim <a href=\"https:\/\/buffalonews.com\/news\/local\/buffalo-diocese-puts-three-priests-on-leave-for-unsuitable-conversations\/article_4700fd19-1c5e-576c-9d91-74d52e43438e.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">seminary rector acknowledged<\/a>\u00a0that whatever the priests said, the diocesan investigation characterized it as \u201cunsuitable, inappropriate and insensitive conversations.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s2\">Sure, Father Bryan acknowledged we are all called to holiness BUT (of course a qualifier) &#8220;we are also called to be real.&#8221; Is that where the telephone call to the dentist friend comes in? Try that with employees at any business in New York State and your front doors will be papered with lawsuits the next morning.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span class=\"s2\"><strong>Clericalism and the Black Wall of Silence<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s2\">Turning our attention again to Bishop Mike, it&#8217;s not just Father Bryan&#8217;s embarrassing demonstration of poor formation that is most upsetting. Like the police who participate in the &#8220;blue wall of silence,&#8221; our new &#8220;vicar for renewal&#8221; embodies the chilling, self-protective clerical instinct for which he has been duly rewarded with this visible leadership role Bishop Mike bestowed upon him. <\/span><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"p2\" style=\"text-align: center;\"><span class=\"s2\" style=\"color: #333399;\">Water down for public consumption a very serious, objectively heinous incident with diocesan priests, and you&#8217;ll get rewarded by your bishop.\u00a0Provide a contextual redefinition of gratuitous obscene banter with subordinates and <\/span><span class=\"s2\" style=\"color: #333399;\"><em>voila<\/em><\/span><span class=\"s2\" style=\"color: #333399;\">! You get to be in charge of renewing a diocese mired in clergy sexual abuse. <\/span><\/h3>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s2\">Father Bryan&#8217;s almost total servility to the diocesan machine is a stunningly arrogant example of the very clericalism that got this diocese into the hell hole it now faces.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><b>Perhaps it&#8217;s time for laity to &#8220;get real&#8221; with Bishop Mike<\/b><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\">Our new &#8220;vicar for renewal&#8221; likes to use the term &#8220;get real.&#8221; How about this dose of reality: Any\u00a0exploitation of the power dynamic of priest over seminarian is a form of <em>abuse<\/em>&#8211;there is no other way to interpret the reactions of the seminarians other than the fact they were objectively, verbally assaulted, if we read their report with any honesty.<\/p>\n<p>This glimpse into Father Bryan&#8217;s <span class=\"s2\">uncritical, cultish, slavish protection of the status quo<\/span>\u00a0gives we laity NO consolation. The choice to have him lead anything in this diocese, much less &#8220;renewal&#8221; following decades of staggering clergy sexual abuse is, frankly, absurd and insulting to our intelligence.<\/p>\n<p>You can join the\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.icontact-archive.com\/archive?c=568470&amp;f=18577&amp;s=24569&amp;m=762839&amp;t=8a64bc45e75e690cfa1a6f5215bfa10a2fe12be973f3eff2b165c1d45e3a49ca\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">virtual conversation<\/a>\u00a0online with Bishop Michael Fisher and Father Bryan Zielenieski, the diocese&#8217;s new vicar for Renewal and Development,\u00a0Saturday, May 8 at 10:00am-11:30am.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/click.icptrack.com\/icp\/rclick.php?cid=568470&amp;mid=762839&amp;destination=https%3A%2F%2Fcanisius.zoom.us%2Fwebinar%2Fregister%2FWN_mFCYpOf3TbWkxdfHUoYVBQ&amp;cfid=18577&amp;vh=58cfa8233498c4e9b129d5eebf7f51789031afdda44d0c37505fd5fdb11220f6\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Register for the virtual conversation here to get in<\/a>. Following acceptance of your free registration, you will be e-mailed a link to the online event. You will be asked not to share that link. You will also be e-mailed an e-mail address to submit your pre-approved questions to the bishop or Father Bryan. Because the <a href=\"https:\/\/laydob.com\/2020\/08\/31\/part-4-loss-of-objectivity\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Movement to Restore Trust<\/a> is hosting this event, anything smacking of critical inquiry or <a href=\"https:\/\/laydob.com\/2020\/08\/31\/part-2-accountability\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">expectation of accountability<\/a>&#8211;such as points made in this post&#8211;likely will not be addressed.<\/p>\n<p>Let us continue our daily rosary for conversion in our diocese, particularly for the hired help<span id='easy-footnote-2-4057' class='easy-footnote-margin-adjust'><\/span><span class='easy-footnote'><a href='https:\/\/laydob.com\/?p=4057#easy-footnote-bottom-2-4057' title='Jesus said: &amp;#8220;A hired man, who is not a shepherd and whose sheep are not his own, sees a wolf coming and leaves the sheep and runs away, and the wolf catches and scatters them.\u00a0This is because he works for pay and has no concern for the sheep.&amp;#8221; &amp;#8211;John 10:12-13 '><sup>2<\/sup><\/a><\/span> tending the flock. St. Joseph, terror of demons, please, please pray for us.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Water down for public consumption a very serious, objectively heinous incident with diocesan priests, and you&#8217;ll get rewarded by your bishop.\u00a0Provide a contextual redefinition of gratuitous obscene banter with subordinates and voila! You get to be in charge of renewing a diocese mired in clergy sexual abuse.\u00a0You can&#8217;t make this up. But you can listen to this priest talk with the bishop about diocesan &#8220;renewal&#8221; on May 8 live online. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7295316,"featured_media":4084,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_coblocks_attr":"","_coblocks_dimensions":"","_coblocks_responsive_height":"","_coblocks_accordion_ie_support":"","advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_seo_schema_type":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_wpcom_ai_launchpad_first_post":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"{title}\n\n{excerpt}\n\n{url}","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"_wpas_customize_per_network":false,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[691052677,687837688],"tags":[691052667,691052678,2878280,27591488,691052676,691052648],"class_list":["post-4057","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-disturbing-actions-of-the-bishop-of-buffalo","category-lay-advisory-groups","tag-bishop-michael-fisher","tag-black-wall-of-silence","tag-clergy-sexual-abuse","tag-diocese-of-buffalo","tag-father-bryan-zielenieski","tag-movement-to-restore-trust","without-featured-image"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pb24kG-13r","amp_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/laydob.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/frBryan.jpg?fit=719%2C356&ssl=1","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/laydob.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4057","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/laydob.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/laydob.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/laydob.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/7295316"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/laydob.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4057"}],"version-history":[{"count":83,"href":"https:\/\/laydob.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4057\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8107,"href":"https:\/\/laydob.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4057\/revisions\/8107"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/laydob.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/4084"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/laydob.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4057"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/laydob.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4057"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/laydob.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4057"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}